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Making it truly personal:

How bespoke funerals let you say goodbye in meaningful ways
Date: 12/02/2026

Choosing a funeral service is a deeply personal decision, and for many families, bespoke funerals are the best way to honour a life lived uniquely.

At Andrew Smith Funeral Services, every aspect of the farewell can be tailored around your loved one’s personality and your wishes, guided by our compassionate and dedicated team.

In this article we explore how bespoke services can go beyond the traditional, how you can celebrate a loved one in meaningful ways, and how the choice of funeral vehicles and alternative touches helps make the day truly special.

What makes a bespoke funeral different?

Unlike a standardised or fixed-price funeral package, bespoke funeral services give you complete freedom to design a ceremony that reflects who your loved one was – their passions, values, and personality. This means having the flexibility to choose everything from the venue, music, readings and floral arrangements to personalised stationery, keepsakes and timings that suit your family.

With bespoke funeral care from Andrew Smith Funeral Services, you will be looked after by a dedicated funeral director and support team who are there from the planning stage through to the day itself; helping you make choices that feel right without added stress.

Celebrating life with unique touches

One of the most meaningful ways to personalise a funeral is to include elements that speak to your loved one’s life story. There is no single “right” way to say goodbye – and incorporating personal, symbolic moments into the service can be deeply comforting.

Some thoughtful and creative options that families can choose are:

  • Fireworks – releasing some cremated remains through fireworks can be a vibrant celebration of a life well lived.
  • Ashes into space – for someone who loved the stars or the idea of exploration, sending ashes into orbit or beyond can be a poetic tribute.
  • Balloon or Dove release – a release of biodegradable balloons or doves offers a gentle, symbolic farewell.
  • Memorial tree – planting a tree in memory creates a lasting, living tribute families can visit and cherish.
  • Ashes at sea, or steam train scattering – ashes can be scattered in places of special meaning, whether on water or alongside a heritage steam locomotive route.

These options are just a starting point, Andrew Smith Funeral Services can help arrange almost any meaningful farewell you imagine as part of their bespoke funeral services.

The role of funeral vehicles in personalisation

One of the most impactful ways to personalise a funeral is through the choice of transport for the final journey. Andrew Smith Funeral Services offers a versatile fleet and flexible options that extend beyond the traditional hearse.

Our traditional funeral fleet is made up of modern classic Jaguars, hand-built by Wilcox Limousines. Each one is maintained by local specialists and always presented in pristine condition.

But if you want something that resonates more with the personality of the person who has passed, bespoke funerals allow you to choose alternative hearses that might better reflect their interests or lifestyle – whether that is a vintage vehicle, a distinctive classic car, a themed vehicle that speaks to a hobby or passion, or even horse-drawn transport for a timeless, heartfelt procession.

No matter the route you choose, Andrew Smith Funeral Services can plan the procession to travel along roads or places that were meaningful, giving families an extra moment of connection.

Bespoke funeral care: Support every step of the way

Planning a personalised farewell can feel overwhelming, especially during a time of grief. That is why our bespoke funeral service is not just about choice, it is about care and support. With Andrew Smith, you are assigned a dedicated funeral director and assistant who will:

  • Help coordinate every aspect of the service
  • Handle legal and administrative requirements
  • Liaise with venues, celebrants, florists and third parties
  • Guide you on alternative options and meaningful additions

This individual care and attention ensures your bespoke funeral is both thoughtfully curated, and executed with professionalism and compassion.

Why personalised funerals matter

Funerals are ultimately for the living – it is a time when family and friends gather to reflect, remember and honour a loved one’s life. When a service feels personalised and meaningful, it can offer comfort, connection, and become a true celebration of the person you loved. Andrew Smith Funeral Services believes this deeply, and our bespoke approach ensures your farewell is as unique as the life it honours.

Need help planning a bespoke funeral?

If you are considering a bespoke funeral and want to explore the many ways you can personalise a farewell, our team is available 24-hours-a-day to discuss your options with care and compassion.

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We consider it a privilege to be chosen as your funeral director. When your loved one is placed in our care, you can be certain they will be treated with dignity, care and respect at all times.

Our services are carried out to the highest standard. We will do everything we can to meet your wishes, and whenever possible, go beyond what you expect.

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